In this episode, the actor, musician, and writer Nico Tortorella to talk about everything from why this is the most nervous Ive ever been for an interview; to how he discovered songwriting during his wifes pregnancy. We discuss my journey with Nicos work and why his book, Space Between: Explorations of Love, Sex, and Fluidity deeply moved me, how challenging it was for him to write the book, and how his views on gender have expanded since having a child. He shares how he was raised regarding queerness, how his and his wifes monogamy has organically taken shape since having their child, and what it was like having a profound home birth experience. He also talks about his views on approaching gender conversations in households, his ten-year sobriety from alcohol, on allowing ourselves and others permission to change our minds, and much more.